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Put the Pitch on Pause!

The Most Powerful Question You Can Ask
to Build Your Business

First of all, did that subject line get your attention? Did you open this week's newsletter a little faster than usual? Or maybe, for the first time in a few weeks?!

I really do mean it when I say, How can I help you? That's what I'm here for. But I also did it to make a point...

If you watched my "Unlocking the Secret to Fruitful Speakers Bureau Relationships" video last week, you know that this is the question that I said will floor any speakers bureau agent. Just try calling a speakers bureau agent -- or sending an email -- with a very short message: How can I help you? Don't pitch yourself. Just ask that one question. Most speakers ask (or imply) "How can I help you... book me?" Well, for starters, get in line! I'm doing the best I can to help myself. I'll help you when I get a chance.

This week's message is not about working with speakers bureaus, though. It's about building your business, period.

How often do you ask "How can I help you?" in a given day or in a given week?

I admit that I don't ask it enough, so this lesson is a reminder for me as much as it is for you.

When someone calls you with a speaking inquiry, instead of jumping into your pitch or grabbing your pen to sign the contract, pause and ask, "How can I help you?" Put the pitch on pause for a minute. There's a chance their answer to that question will make it clear that one of your speaker colleagues can help them more than you can. Say it ain't so...

There's an even bigger chance, though, that the prospective client's answer to that question will open up even richer opportunities than you knew existed. Oh, you don't need a speaker just for that meeting... You need someone to help you transform your sales team over the next 12 months. Yeah, I can do that!

“How can I help you?” is one of the most powerful questions in the English language!

If you can add value to someone's life or work, they'll never forget you.

Help someone and you'll be amazed at how often you end up getting business and referrals and having doors opened to people who can help you.

The beautiful thing is, as a speaker, your business is helping people. You have expertise. You have a story. You have a solution. But because we're so focused on booking dates and making sales, the real value we can offer is easily forgotten.

You help people. You make money. Pretty good business model. :-)

To your speaking success,


Shawn Ellis


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Shawn Answers
Shawn - What makes for a good speaker intro?
-- Gary B.

Gary - That's a great question, and I think many speakers underestimate just how important the introduction is. Because your intro will likely be your first impression on the audience, I think of it like the on-ramp to the freeway (if your presentation is the freeway). If you come down the on-ramp sputtering, then the first part of your presentation is going to be spent getting up to speed, or hitting your groove, with the audience. If, though, you can get up to full speed on the on-ramp, then momentum is on your side when you take the stage. So what makes for a great speaker intro? There are two big factors, in my opinion. #1 - Brevity. This isn't a time to stroke your own ego with your accomplishments. Try to highlight just the items that have direct relevance to your presentation content. Your goal with your intro should be to share just enough to establish credibility, and if possible, something that would help you connect with the audience you're about to address. As program chair for the IASB Convention recently, I had to review all of our speaker intros and many of them were far too long. Definitely don't submit your bio as your intro. For one thing, your bio is way too long to serve as an intro. And if someone does try to shorten it, they probably won't do so optimally. #2 - Your introducer. The person introducing you is rarely as skilled behind the mic as you are, and that's one reason for keeping your intro short. There's nothing that sucks the energy out of a room like having to sit through a 5-minute monotone intro! I suggest meeting with your introducer for a few moments before your presentation. Have a casual conversation and try to get to know one another on some level. Then maybe the person can weave some "personal" remarks into the intro -- like "I was just speaking with Gary and..." The other thing to do during this chat is offer some on-the-fly speech training. Explain what an important role this person is playing in your speech today and how grateful you are to have them introducing you. Then share some tips on what they can do to ease their nerves and hit their own home run with the audience (another opportunity to take the "How can I help you?" approach!). Does that help? Thanks for your question!

-- Shawn E.

Have a question? Just ask!

 



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Who is Shawn Ellis? Shawn is the founder and president of The Speakers Group, a firm that serves to optimize connections between professional speakers and meeting and event planners. He has been working with top speakers since 1999 and is known as a trusted partner to speakers and planners alike, having booked speakers for hundreds of events over the past decade. With the Succeed Speaking newsletter, Shawn aims to combine his knowledge of the speaking profession and the meetings industry with a passion for entrepreneurship and small business optimization to help professional and aspiring speakers build successful, sustainable speaking enterprises.

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